I am an Egomaniac: #TruthTuesday
There is a fine line between confidence and egomania, and I have come to realize that too often I stand on the side of ego. This is not the legacy I want to leave behind. Instead, I want to be known for my compassion and acts of servitude, but then I ask myself why? Why do I feel the need to be known at all? The answer is simple: I AM AN EGOMANIAC.
Over the years, I’ve learned that the first step to change bad habits is to admit the bad habit exists. That being said, I am quite aware that my ego is beyond my control, for the moment. In order to check myself before I wreck myself (wisdom from Ice Cube), I need practical tools. Enter the new book I’ve begun reading: Ego is the Enemy By Ryan Holiday.
Though I have only just begun this book, the first part of it has proven to be incredibly beneficial. So far, I’ve learned some practical information, which I know will help me grow into a more humble human being (and my husband is rejoicing). Below is a list of five truths I’ve learned thus far. Perhaps these facts will help you, as well.
Ego stops us from reaching our dreams and destinations.
To whatever I aspire to, ego is my enemy, and the path to ambition is a dangerous one.
Instead of allowing my work and goals to be driven by achievement and ego, I must be driven by a strong sense of purpose. Specifically, I must question my motives for wanting success.
The point of building self-esteem actually makes me weak because I am focused more on my accolades and talents then on improving myself.
”The ability to evaluate one’s own ability is the most important skill of all. Without it, improvement is impossible.”
Ryan Holiday should be given all of the mics in order to drop them all… wait, is that my ego trying to impose itself onto him. Yes, yes it is. *Face palm*
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